
Hi friends, new friends, and future friends,
It’s been a little over a year since I joined End of Life Choices New York! Can you believe it? It’s been a wild ride from the tail end of the medical aid in dying legislation to the promised signature and implementation period to August 5, 2026 and the effective option here in New York State. I certainly didn’t know what I was walking into with this new role… but holy moly do I love it!!
I’m grateful to each and every patient, individual, family, and friend who has reached out to share their situation and build trust with me. It’s been so special to get to be friends with each of you as you navigate a complex time in your own life and the complexities of options. You have each taught me bravery, vulnerability, and how profound love can really be.
While some of the friends I’ve made are no longer on this Earth, I keep their memory with me. As my friend Wally would say, “speak from your guts”. This work has inspired me to “live from my guts” and embrace all the ups and downs of life. I take pauses, I reflect, and I try my best to roll with the hard times so that I can bring my best self to each moment and to each of you.
Thank you for the continued opportunities, my friends.
Sincerely,
Nathalie Chara
Program Director, End of Life Choices New York
We have several upcoming events that we encourage you to join. Find one, or several, options that you connect to and join us!
Medical aid in dying implementation has been going well in New York. We have worked with residents from over 22 counties in this state who are seeking information about this option. This is incredibly encouraging news as our fear was that the law would pass but no one would know about it. And although there is certainly more work to do done, we are encouraged by the initial interest from patients, doctors, healthcare facilities and other senior-serving organizations. In addition to this, here are some additional encouraging stats:
If you are a patient needing coordination of services, please complete this intake form and we will work to make the needed referrals. EOLCNY also created a comprehensive guide to medical aid in dying in NY that can be accessed on our website and/or downloaded if needed.
If you are meeting with your doctor in the next few weeks or months, don’t forget to ask them if they will be providing aid in dying care! If they are interested, please make an introduction so we can provide them with all the support they need! Share this flyer with them or ask if they’d be open to a conversation about medical aid in dying with End of Life Choices New York and The Academy of Aid-in-Dying Medicine. We would be happy to schedule a call to introduce them to the practice and provide resources for them to feel competent and capable to practice in this area.
If you learn of trainings in your community, please forward them to us so we can reach out and let them know about the support we can provide. We are thrilled that we have been seeing trainings popping up and we want to support any organization to provide the best quality care possible.
We continue to receive many requests by major media outlets to interview people who are considering this option when it becomes available. This is an important way we can use the media to bring more awareness about this option. If you have been diagnosed with a terminal illness and will likely be eligible to use medical aid in dying in the next 6-12 months, and you’d be willing to talk to the media either in print or on TV, please let me know. I can put you in touch with very sensitive reporters and producers who want to help share your story in a compassionate and dignified manner.
Q: As the holidays approach, what are some good ways to engage family members to normalize conversations about death?
A: One idea is to start a conversation by asking family members over Thanksgiving if they have a favorite recipe that has been passed down to them that they would like to share. Open a conversation about the memories that this food brings up. Share a recipe that you hope people will always associate with you and let them know that you’d love to share recipes that can continue to be passed down to the next generation.
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