Celebrating one year with EOLCNY

Mandi Zucker
Mandi Zucker
October 28, 2026

Live How You Like, Leave How You Like


Hi friends, new friends, and future friends,

It’s been a little over a year since I joined End of Life Choices New York! Can you believe it? It’s been a wild ride from the tail end of the medical aid in dying legislation to the promised signature and implementation period to August 5, 2026 and the effective option here in New York State. I certainly didn’t know what I was walking into with this new role… but holy moly do I love it!!

I’m grateful to each and every patient, individual, family, and friend who has reached out to share their situation and build trust with me. It’s been so special to get to be friends with each of you as you navigate a complex time in your own life and the complexities of options. You have each taught me bravery, vulnerability, and how profound love can really be.

While some of the friends I’ve made are no longer on this Earth, I keep their memory with me. As my friend Wally would say, “speak from your guts”. This work has inspired me to “live from my guts” and embrace all the ups and downs of life. I take pauses, I reflect, and I try my best to roll with the hard times so that I can bring my best self to each moment and to each of you.

Thank you for the continued opportunities, my friends.

 

Sincerely,
Nathalie Chara
Program Director, End of Life Choices New York


 

Upcoming Events

We have several upcoming events that we encourage you to join. Find one, or several, options that you connect to and join us!

  • Legacy League: October 29 from 10-11:30 AM in Manhattan, NY. Join us for an in-person, no-agenda hang out to talk about death and dying- or what we call a “Legacy League”. Bring your questions, worries and fears, and curiosities as we get together to demystify and se-taboo death. And don’t worry – if it gets quiet, we will play a fun game! Register here.
  • New York’s Mew Medical Aid I Dying Act – What Attorneys and Community Members should Know: November 4 at 5:30-7:15 PM. Join us to learn how the law works, what it requires, and how attorneys and families can support loved ones through these conversations. Offered as a hybrid option online and at the Nassau County Bar Association, 15th and W Streets, Mineola, NY. Register here.
  • How we Love: A Family’s Journey Through Medical Aid in Dying: Tuesday, November 17th from 2-3:30 on Zoom. Join End of Life Choices New York (EOLCNY) as we share the story of a family whose father utilized the MAiD Act and how this option at the end of his life made for beautiful moments together. Following this journey, EOLCNY will provide information about the Medical Aid in Dying (MAiD) and how to get connected to support and begin the process for those considering this option. Register here.
  • End of Life Binder Making Program (in conjunction with Starr’s End of Life Choices/Medical Aid in Dying Panel Discussion): November 18 at 1:00-2:30 PM, Morton Memorial Library, Rhinecliff, NY. Registration not required. Register here.
  • Medical Aid in Dying Panel Discussion: November 18, 4-6 PM, Starr Library, Rhinebeck, NY. Join us to learn about how MAiD brings autonomy to an individual’s end of life, the steps in the MAiD process, support that is important, and resources that are becoming available. There will be a presentation and a panel discussion, including time for your questions. Presenters are: Nathalie Chara, Program Director at End of Life Choices New York; Erika Murphy, End-of-Life Doula; and Ingrid Forte, Executive Director of the Hudson Valley Hospice House. The panel will be moderated by Ruven Liebhaber, end-of-life educator and long term hospice volunteer. Register here.
Update on Medical Aid in Dying Implementation

Medical aid in dying implementation has been going well in New York. We have worked with residents from over 22 counties in this state who are seeking information about this option. This is incredibly encouraging news as our fear was that the law would pass but no one would know about it. And although there is certainly more work to do done, we are encouraged by the initial interest from patients, doctors, healthcare facilities and other senior-serving organizations. In addition to this, here are some additional encouraging stats:

  • Over 100 people have inquired about end of life options since August. 5, 2026. This has tripled since the same time last year. These inquiries were not all about medical aid in dying, and not everyone who was interested in it will qualify, but the fact that they are reaching out for support is good news.
  • We are aware of approximately 20 patients that have completed the process of medical aid in dying. We have not heard of any complications and all deaths were reportedly peaceful. There are likely at least 10-15 additional patients that have completed the process with hospitals and private doctors that did not come directly through EOLCNY.
  • We have been working with 14 independent physicians who are able to provide this care. That is significantly more than several other states surrounding NY that have had access to this law for several years. That is due to our outreach and the eduction we have been able to provide these physicians. We will continue to do more outreach to make it even more accessible. These physicians are independent, so this does not include several healthcare facilities that have staff physicians who are also willing and able to provide this care.
  • There are at least 8 compounding pharmacies around the state providing the needed medication. The pharmacies have been very easy to work with and they have been shipping the medication around the state, so patients even in rural areas are able to get them. The medication is not covered by insurance and can cost up to $1000 which can certainly be challenging for some people. We are working on ways to lower the cost of the medication and would like to see Medicaid cover the cost as well.

If you are a patient needing coordination of services, please complete this intake form and we will work to make the needed referrals. EOLCNY also created a comprehensive guide to medical aid in dying in NY that can be accessed on our website and/or downloaded if needed.

If you are meeting with your doctor in the next few weeks or months, don’t forget to ask them if they will be providing aid in dying care! If they are interested, please make an introduction so we can provide them with all the support they need! Share this flyer with them or ask if they’d be open to a conversation about medical aid in dying with End of Life Choices New York and The Academy of Aid-in-Dying Medicine. We would be happy to schedule a call to introduce them to the practice and provide resources for them to feel competent and capable to practice in this area.

If you learn of trainings in your community, please forward them to us so we can reach out and let them know about the support we can provide. We are thrilled that we have been seeing trainings popping up and we want to support any organization to provide the best quality care possible.

We continue to receive many requests by major media outlets to interview people who are considering this option when it becomes available. This is an important way we can use the media to bring more awareness about this option. If you have been diagnosed with a terminal illness and will likely be eligible to use medical aid in dying in the next 6-12 months, and you’d be willing to talk to the media either in print or on TV, please let me know. I can put you in touch with very sensitive reporters and producers who want to help share your story in a compassionate and dignified manner.

 

Ask Us Anything

Q: As the holidays approach, what are some good ways to engage family members to normalize conversations about death?

A: One idea is to start a conversation by asking family members over Thanksgiving if they have a favorite recipe that has been passed down to them that they would like to share. Open a conversation about the memories that this food brings up. Share a recipe that you hope people will always associate with you and let them know that you’d love to share recipes that can continue to be passed down to the next generation.

If you have a question you’d like answered, send it here!

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