People come first

Mandi Zucker
Mandi Zucker
May 13, 2026

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Dear Friends,

Two weeks ago I announced a bold but urgent goal: to raise $80,526 by Implementation Day, 8/05/26. I wanted to highlight exactly why these funds are so critical. So allow me to be more specific about what we need funding for. Each newsletter for the next few months, I will highlight one specific need for funding. This week, I will focus on the most important part of access: removing the financial barriers for patients. I am choosing to highlight this need first because this is truly why we exist – to make sure patients have access to any and all options for end of life care. The people have always come first for us.

We plan to create a fund to allow people to pay for services not covered by insurance that they would otherwise not be able to afford. Things like the aid-in-dying medications, the consultations with capacity evaluators and transportation to and from doctors appointments.

Medications costs can vary but we have heard estimates between $600-1000. Consults with psychiatrists, psychologists and neurologists (these are the only professionals allowed by law to complete the required competency evaluations) can range from $300-1000 for one visit. And transportation costs can be incredibly variable for people who may require specialized vehicles to get to a doctors appointment that might not be in their local neighborhood.

When we talk about why we advocated for medical aid in dying for all of these years, it was because we wanted all New Yorkers to be able to live and die with all of the options available to them. We know that most people want to die comfortably, without pain, with dignity and love. Begging for money to be able to die with these things eats away at this exact cause so it is critical that we can provide these funds to those who need it. Otherwise, the law is just words on paper for too many people.

Please provide any amount you can to help us create this fund. Thank you!

 

Sincerely,
Mandi Zucker
Executive Director

Recent Events & Updates

EOLCNY Making News!

David Leven, Senior Advocacy Consultant and Executive Director Emeritus of End of Life Choices New York, recently responded to a NY Times article on May 5, written by Dr. Jessica Nutik Zitter, emphasizing the need for doctors to have conversations with all patients over 18 years about advance care planning. The failure of doctors to have this conversation leads many people o die poorly. David’s comment was as follows:

“My Parents Are in Their Mid-80’s. Why Won’t They Prepare for the End?” (op-ed May.5) is informative and clearly illustrates the serious shortcoming of too many physicians who fail to effectively communicate with their patients about end of life planning. Too many patients die badly in the US, sometimes because they are kept alive in circumstances where they would not want to continue life sustaining treatment, but their wishes were unknown.
The federal Patient Self-Determination Act requires that hospitals and nursing homes inquire whether the patient has an advance health care directive and if not to inform them of their right to make one. While this is very important and can result in making a positive difference in what health care is provided to patients, it is often not the ideal time to begin the process. Physicians and nurse practitioners should, in their offices, be required to have discussions with patients 18 and over about the importance and benefits that advance directives provide, particularly health care proxies, and they should be paid much more than they currently are as Dr. Zitter recommends.
Until changes are made to hopefully ensure effective end of life discussions with patients, too many patients will continue to live longer but not die better or in a way that comports with their wishes.”

Upcoming Events

We have several upcoming events that we encourage you to join. Find one, or several, options that you connect to and join us!

  • Long Island Fundraiser. May 14 at 6:30. Help us celebrate the monumental achievement of passing Medical Aid in Dying in NY, and support our efforts for a smooth implementation. The event is free to attend. Donations accepted with registration or at the event. Register here.
  • Legacy League. May 14th at 10:00 AM on Zoom. Join us for a no-agenda hang out to talk about death and dying- or what we call “Legacy League”. Bring your questions, worries and fears, and curiosities as we get together to demystify and de-taboo death. And don’t worry, if it gets quiet we’ll play a fun game! This Legacy League is online through Zoom. To join our Legacy League, please click here to get your ticket!
  • Legacy League. May 28th at 475 west 57th Street, NYC at 10:00 AM. Join us for a no-agenda hang out to talk about death and dying- or what we call “Legacy League”. Bring your questions, worries and fears, and curiosities as we get together to demystify and de-taboo death. And don’t worry, if it gets quiet we’ll play a fun game! This Legacy League is in-person in Manhattan. You must get a ticket to attend this event so please secure your ticket here.
Health Care Proxies are for all! 

This form is accessible and simple to fill out- when can you say that about a legal form?! You can find this document in multiple languages including English, Spanish, Chinese, Haitian Creole, Italian, KoreanRussian, Yiddish, Polish, French, Bengali, Arabic, and Urdu. Please reach out if you’d like to talk through your Proxy form or if you need help finding witnesses to sign. We are here to help! Reach out at 646-580-4387 or at nathalie@eolcny.org.

Update on Medical Aid in Dying Implementation

Many of you have requested a copy of the updated law with Governor Hochul’s amendments. We are incredibly thankful to David Hoffman, JD and Robert N. Swindler, MA, JD, for putting together two documents that do just that. The first one, linked here, is the original bill language that integrates that governor’s enhanced amendments. The second one, linked here, is redlined to show the changes from the original language.

We have been able to schedule a meeting with the Department of Health, thanks to volunteer Mary Applegate, and they will be meeting with them in the next few weeks to discuss their plans for implementation and offer any support we can to ensure a smooth process on August 5, 2026. We have several questions we will hope to get answered but if you have additional questions, feel free to email Mandi. We cannot guarantee that we will have time to ask everything but we are hopeful that this is the beginning of a conversation and we will have more opportunities in the near future.

We continue to speak to patients who are interested in considering medical aid in dying and have already begun connecting them to physicians to pre-plan as much as they can which receiving quality care. We have also been able to connect patients with family members of people who used medical aid in dying in other states, so they can begin to learn what the process was generally like (although it will be slightly different in each state) and ask questions that only family and friends who be able to answer. We are honored to be able to coordinate this part of the process. If you are in need, please reach out to us! If you are a clinician of any sort (doctor, nurse, social worker, chaplain, volunteer, doula, or hospital/hospice system), please complete this survey. The answers to this survey will not be made public but will allow us to reach out to you to offer you the opportunity to connect with patients based on their needs. This survey has informed us already that we have strong interest from all sorts of clinicians in providing this care, including pharmacists, doctors, psychologists and end of life doulas.

Please continue to share the flyer highlighting our partnership with the Academy of Aid-in-Dying Medicine with anyone you think could benefit from resources and education. Together with The Academy, we are your go-to source for all things related to the implementation of excellent aid-in-dying care. Please reach out to us with questions, concerns and needs.

If you learn of trainings in your community, please forward them to us so we can reach out and let them know about the support we can provide. We are thrilled that we have been seeing trainings popping up and we want to support any organization to provide the best quality care possible.

We continue to receive many requests by major media outlets to interview people who are considering this option when it becomes available. This is an important way we can use the media to bring more awareness about this option. If you have been diagnosed with a terminal illness and will likely be eligible to use medical aid in dying in the next 6-12 months, and you’d be willing to talk to the media either in print or on TV, please let me know. I can put you in touch with very sensitive reporters and producers who want to help share your story in a compassionate and dignified manner.

Ask Us Anything

Q: If I live in a neighboring state to NY that also allows for medical aid in dying (Vermont or New Jersey, for example), and my doctor is licensed in that state, can I use that doctor in either state?

A: This is a complicated question. In Vermont, you may be able to use that doctor in either state if you are a NY resident because Vermont does not have a residency requirement. However, if you live in Vermont, you cannot use the doctor in NY because you must be a resident of NY. You can only use that doctor in Vermont, meaning you must receive your care from that doctor in Vermont. Both NJ and NY have residency requirements so although the doctor may have dual licenses, you must receive the care in the state in which you reside. If you have questions about this, please reach out to us for further clarification.

If you have a question you’d like answered, send it here!

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